A LETTER TO THE BLOG

Dear Blog, I am down for you and I'm never giving up. My life took a new turn since I found you on the 10th of October, normally I don't keep dates but yours is different, the day I meet you is fresh in my head.
In a short time You, like no other turned me into a happier person and changed my life completely, I can't thank you enough.

I live each day, knowing I have somewhere to pour my emotions, thoughts, challenges and experiences, each day, I live knowing that I saved/informed one more person. I live fulfilled each day knowing that one person has join the 'phiyah'style gang' and above all, I learn fabulous and interesting things each day, things I would never have learnt without you, things I couldn't have laid my fingers on, you also brought great and fabulous  people, the lights of Esther Adeniyi, Cassie Daves, Maryanne and Rachel closer to me. God knows I can't thank you enough for every thing you've done for me.

PS: This letter isn't written to Phiyah'style blog! It is to you reading this, you are the blog maker, without you there's no blog, you read every single thing on this blog either boring, with no sense of humor or amazing, you don't know how happy you make me feel, lord know I'm really grateful, thank you. I love y'all and let me know you're here, you can also add your blog ID on the comment box

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU HAVE A BEE STING

good morning cuties, trust you had a wonderful weekend like i did

On saturday, I was stung by a bee for the first time in my life. A friend of mine hung her shirt in the line and before we knew it bees were everywhere around it so everyone was scared to get closer not to talk of carrying the shirt from the line. When I saw all of them screaming, I was like common bee, y'all are shouting, what if it's a snake?

In my quest for the position of 'HEROINE' I majestically walked down the stairs, went to the line where the shirt was (truth is, I wasn't really scared), stared at the bees, then attempted to remove the shirt, 'BOOM' the whole thing got scattered and started coming after me. I guess I was shocked cause I heard a voice shouting "RUN". I started running but unlunkily for me, your heroine got served - a hot sting(by only one bee). It wasn't really painful, twas just hot, too bad, i didn't know what to do, i had to do a little research so you won't be in my shoes.

This will help you render a home treatment to yourself, a friend or anyone if they get a bee sting, all you have to do is

* Remove the bee stinger ~ this can be done by using your finger nails to scrape out the stinger from the 'sting site'
* wash the site with soap and water for sterilization
* then apply either one of the following

1. Honey
2. Toothpaste ~ I prefer closeup
3. Aloe vera
OR
4. Ice
You might want to take pain reliever as it would reduce the pain.

N/B: It will itch you, don't fall for it cause it will only get worst, if the pain persist after all these then go see a doctor.

have ever been stung by a bee?
share with us your 'BeExperience'

THE ANTIDOTE TO SELF DOUBT

I don't know how to write - well ofcos that's what i use to say to myself, i felt ashamed each time I try to sketch out words from my feelings, i did stop writing but know this, the only way to improve is writing.

FORGIVE MY MANNERS, IT'S BEEN A WHILE DEARIES
HOW ARE YOU?
HOW IS THE OUTER WORLD? I GUESS IT'S CRUEL AS ALWAYS BUT WE HAVE TO HOLD ON

During my small little break I learnt something, something I've always known but never practiced, something that works like magic, it's cures self doubt faster than and drugs, if it continuously taken - inasmuch as you need is, don't take overdose, it might develop to a bigger problem.

On one of cassie daves posts on instagram, she talked about her insecurity and asked to share ours, I had to let someone hear my heart cry and so I on the comment section told her, "I love writing but I don't think i can, her reply, is one of the reasons I am typing this today.

oh, no you should totally write if you love writing, I found out that gassing myself makes me feel a lot better..

i started to gas myself and gassing myself has made me realize that I can do better, gassing has been my antidote and I'm pretty sure you can do a lot more if you start gassing yourself instead of beating yourself for your imperfection which is humane.

BONUS TIP
practice gassing everyday, you could talk or write short notes to yourself - who says it can be long, it's your choice anyways.

get in the comment box let's interact
how do you deal with self doubt?
have ever gassed yourself? then how do you do it?